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Seasoned journalist and empty nester Holland (former Capitol Hill correspondent, Hearst Newspapers) aims her new book at parents managing the emotions and practical realities of life after their children leave home. Challenges range from boomerang kids and aging parents to rocky marital relationships and a sense that time is running out. Gleaning advice from more than 300 individuals from various backgrounds, Holland offers tips for finding new meaning in life and a sense of belonging through involvement in a particular cause or activity, finding a new career, and/or drawing closer to extended family members. VERDICT Holland puts a positive spin on what could be a tumultuous season of life, providing a solid route on which to travel.

Publishers Weekly
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Journalist Holland provides advice for empty nesters, pulling from over 300 interviews with a diverse group of parents, in her instructive debut. With a focus on managing one’s relationships during this transitional period, Holland suggests reinvigorating one’s life with double dates and social plans (while also being wary of “suffocating” friends and family) and engaging in activities such as volunteering, taking classes, and reconnecting with old friends. Holland also explores why marriage can be more difficult after children leave and offers strategies to make the transition less rocky. While much of the advice is directed toward women, there are tips for men, as well—particularly in relation to reforming friendships at an older age. A significant portion of the book addresses creating new and respectful relationships with adult children after they leave, or if they “boomerang” back home, with helpful advice on setting boundaries. This shrewd guide will be useful to any empty nester concerned about next steps. (Feb.)